I don’t think love is always a huge, cataclysmal emotional event. I think sometimes it sits in front of you for a very long time until you glance over and say, oh, there you are. I don’t think it’s your saving grace. I think it’s the hand that you hold while you save yourself. I don’t think it’s someone who sweeps you off your feet. I think it’s someone who stays right beside you and lets you walk on your own. I don’t think it’s always a blazing but temporary insanity of racing hearts and hormones. I think that’s the love that changes us. The love that should stay with us is the calm, deep, thorough knowing that you want to be with someone despite logical objections. And what may be even more important than anything is that I think you find your own love at the very edges of where other people’s love pushes you.
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I’ve had this blog for a long time. I started it, so I could get the thoughts out that are in my head that I couldn’t really express verbally to someone. My blog is strictly for me. My online diary of my life, feelings, emotions, pictures, thoughts, statements, anger, happiness, and the rest of what life brings. I’m a thinker, a realist, a communicator, and want things to be figured out. I’ve been through more in my life than what I care to have gone through, but I try to think and hope it’s made me stronger. It’s definitely made me change. I very much believe in mean what you say type conversation. I’m learning to deal with my faults, and short comings. I’m trying to be as true to myself and others more so now than ever before. I feel things too deep sometimes, which clouds my mind, and sometimes I don’t react to it very well. But I’m learning to want to change that process. Read my blog & your reading my heart. View all posts by Elissa